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How to develop positive attitude in children


Posted Date: 31-Jan-2011  Last Updated:   Category: General    
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Each and every parent on this Universe has only one dream that their kids should grow up smart. That their kids should always look confident and have a positive attitude which will help them achieve success. But not many parents can confirm that their kid has a positive attitude. There is presently so much negativity around how hard you try kids fail to develop positive attitude in themselves. Here are few tips which can help develop positive attitude in children.



How to develop positive attitude in children


Finally what does the parent dream of? Each and every parent on this Universe has only one dream that their kids should grow up smart. That their kids should always look confident and have a positive attitude which will help them achieve success. But not many parents can confirm that their kid has a positive attitude. I am sure many parents on the other hand would confess that though there kids are smart and independent yet something lacks somewhere. The positive attitude is missing. Now why does that happen? To be frank, there are many reasons for the same. There is presently so much negativity around how hard you try kids fail to develop positive attitude in themselves. Few other factors include:

- Development of Destructive thinking

- Atmosphere at Home

- Constant Criticism from Parents

- Parent's Negative Approach

- Lack of Freedom

- Over – Protective nature of parents

- Psychological Problems

These are just few that I could think of, but there may be many more factors which may fail to develop positive attitude in children. The atmosphere in one's house pays a major role when it comes to developing positive attitude. If the people living inside a house are themselves negative and the family is more into constant criticism, then the children too develop the same attitude unknowingly. If any parent, especially the father continues to criticize his children constantly then children fail to develop positive attitude. Parent's negative approach has an adverse effect on the children and it hampers their growth. The over-perfectionistic standards discourage the kids and fail to develop positive attitude in children. Parent's fail on their part and children suffer for parent's mistake. But then, one can't just blame the parent, even psychological problem can come in the way of development of positive attitude.
Here are few tips you must know which can help develop positive attitude in children.

Early Diagnosis and treatment of Psychological problem help develop positive attitude in children


Psychological Problems such as Personality Disorders fails to develop positive attitude in children. Personality Disorders develops at a very young age and can be a risk factor which hampers the positive development of a child's mind. Early diagnosis and treatments may be beneficial. Other than Personality Disorder, Mental illness may also be a reason for a child to grow negative attitude. Mental illness or Mental disorder generally affects the behavioral pattern in children and fail to develop positive attitude in them. Hence parents should not neglect such conditions and consider immediate treatments for the perfect development of the child.

A healthy atmosphere at home helps develop positive attitude in Children


Negative parents create Negative children. If this phrase is actually true then the parents are to be blamed for the child's negative behavior. If parents have had unsatisfying circumstances in life there behavior pattern changes and they get more sarcastic or negative about the way one should live his life. Constant criticism from such parents may actually lower the self-esteem of a child and fail to develop positive attitude in children. Hence parents need to be more practical and positive about how they should live their life. It would be unfair to say that if parents are negative then kids should also be the same. In fact parents can try and change the situation by acting as responsible adults and behaving in more sensible way. Everyone have their own choices and one can make help his child develop a positive attitude so that he wouldn't repeat the same mistakes in life and opt for better choices. One's home should always be full of laughter and happiness which play key factors in boosting confidences and developing positive attitude in children.

Constant Reminders of being happy in every situation helps develop positive attitude in Children


Kids tend to get sad or unhappy when they fail to succeed. Constant failures give rise to negative attitude in kids. The kids have to remember that they should be happy in each and every situation and that is the only they can develop positive attitude. Parents can play a major role in such situations by constantly reminding them how they can tackle such situation by remaining calm and positive.

Here's what you can do: When a child fails to win a trophy in a particular competition, don't criticize him. On the contrary tell him, that you are proud of him for he participated and gave his best shot. The trophy isn't really important but the child had a great time and that's what matter a lot. There are many more trophies to come and he should try his best next time. Such statements from parents help children to develop positive attitude and boost their confidence.

Counseling may help develop positive attitude in Children


If you have tried out everything and still not able to find what has gone wrong, then the only option you should try out is a Counselor's help. Sometimes kids are too shy to open up in front of their parents and tell how they really feel about few things. This is where counselor comes into the picture, as they know how to do their job very well. Counselor help kids to open out and share their feelings and thus find out what is going wrong. Sometimes there can be few problems which children are unable to speak to their parents due to fear or embarrassment. In such cases, Counselors do a great job and make the child open up. Problems like Child Abuse, Bullying etc can cause severe damage to a child's mind. Family problems such as Divorce, Constant quarrels can also be devastating for the children and fail to develop positive attitude in children. Once the counselor understands a child's problem he/she can help the kid overcome such situations. The parents too are taken into confidence and they too undergo a counseling session for making things better for the children.

And Finally

Top Ten Tips to develop Positive Attitude in Children


1. Encourage your child to participate in various activities or competitions to boost their confidence.

2. Encourage any hobby or activity your child enjoys doing particularly.

3. Laugh aloud and share jokes with your children and encourage them to do the same.

4. Encourage your child to handle situations with ease and accept his failures.

5. Spend quality time with your children and have long chats with them.

6. Ask your child to open up and share his experiences from school.

7. Don't ever compare your child with other children

8. Allow your child to explore himself and respect his curiosity.

9. Always show trust in your children.

10. Try to be a friend of your child other than his master.
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